tonite is my second time attend christian funeral …the 1st time was Michelle’s dad …and now is my dad’s good friend Uncle T ……
ytd morning ,i was still in cameron and suddenly mom’s hp ring …..OMG ..v received that bad news ….out of my expectation man ..really get shock that day …coz ,never heard b4 he got any sickness….and suddenly happened this pula ….how can it be ???
juz went to his house tonite ..when reached there saw lots of his church friends …so suprised ..i saw audrey’s parents at there too …(her mom still rmb me wor …) they were having their church service …singing many songs …the last song is AMAZING GRACE ….when i heard that song ,i almost cry out too ….but i never cry out lar ..after the ceremony ,then me and mom went in to pay respect to Uncle T ..actually i dun dare to see 1 ..but when i walked near the coffin …i dare to see him wor …still rmb last time his face quite red 1 …with his laughter ..and he like to play guitar ….last time when dad having gathering with his ex-classmate…uncle t sure will brought his guitar along and play songs for us to listen ..then when christmas ,he will invite us to his christmas party …but now …..haiz…juz now i saw his face …and i saw his daughter crying …i can felt that type of sadness …myself almost cry out …coz i think of 3 years b4 i had a same experience with his daughter …i know that type of feeling …nobody will know ..until u have lost some1 that is very close to u and u love them very much …i miss my dad ……but at least he is better than my dad …he get to see his son merriage …and now his daughter in law pregnant d ….but my dad cant even experience all these thing …aii….the SFI reunion dinner less 1 more people d ..1st is my dad and now is uncle t …y??? y best friends cannot last forever …y must happen all these thing…..
in chinese v usually said ‘today don’t know tomorrow will happen what ‘…so u all must enjoy life …appreciate what u have now …dun regret when u lost that things …. Uncle T rest in peace ….u will always on our mind ….
hey gal, i think u shud use ‘fake name’ instead of using the real name of uncle. it’s a kind of irrespect to him since we r not his close relative.
look forward n live life strong!
ya, maybe i nvr experience this kind of thing, but i still can feel the sadness u noe…some sort of dreadly feel tht u will nver see the person again. hard to describe, bt vr hurt…still rmb i went to a relative’s funeral, very small tht time… n tht was the first time i saw my closest relatives cried.it was hard, although i was small….i really hate seeing people cry, usually the elder ones,actually is scared…i rela to bear everyones sadness than witnessing other people sad…. sorry, i was suppose to ‘an wei’ u….life will still go on, the ones who have gone will always be in our heart.all i can say is :live the part of life they miss out 4 them….
hey violet,thanks for ur comment ..erm …thanks god i got u all accompany me during that time …but actually i telling nothing much about that thing with u all ..coz i’m thinking u all dun have the experience ..so seldom talk about that infront of u all ..tell u something ,got 2 person will let me think of my dad …1 is ur dad Mr.Soo,another 1 is Mr.Oh ..i dunno y leh ..mayb a bit similar among 3 of them ..have the ‘papa ‘ yang …hee..
i’m missing my dad too…stay strong girl..and wat u said was true..u duno wat wil happen tomolo…love ya